Hi All, I've just read Dr Glover's No More Mr. Nice Guy and it was a huge eye opener to me, although some parts are too simplistic. Have anyone of you read this? It's about people-pleasing, goodist, non-confrontational behavior of some men and about how this leads to dissatisfaction in life and problems with women, work, relationships... To this I would add TMS pain! I never previously thought of my "niceness" as a problem, but now I begin to see that this could be the cause of my pain. Trying to please others instead of satisfying my own needs.