Day 15 , i have had so many arguments with my partner since starting this program . Have other people found this to happen for them? . Im not intentional picking fights with him . When im triggered by him or his behaviour towards me i just dont seam able to sweep it under the carpet. i seam to be expressing my truth in the situation when i dont feel its respectful or just .I think my partner has noticed a change in me and is rocking my self esteem a bit . I dont think he is doing intentionally ( he is not a bad person at all ) . How ever it really dose feel like he is not sure about my more self assured stance and has been saying things that rock my self confidence .usually about my weight and then just sais its a joke . observing this is an eye opener and feels very sad.