Today I am feeling pretty good at this moment. No back pain and no neck pain. Things have calmed down since our visitor left. My husband and I are both exhausted because we were catching up on 18 years since we had seen him. Our friend R is a VERY intense ADHD person and talked pretty much non stop for the entire time he was awake at our house. But It was good to see him. Husband realized that he needs to find a better way to cope and can't fall off the deep end when things pile up. When he falls apart my pain level ramps up. So does his. I have brrn telling him about TMS and he agrees that he has it too. His shoulder feels better since his friend left. So maybe a breakthrough!