Recent content by sadoromi

It's not your fault. You can't help those who don't want to be helped.

I'd say fail as much as possible. Get rejected like 100 times. You'll eventually get used to it and you'll stop taking it to heart. I think that's the fastest way to prove to your subconscious mind that minor failures aren't life-threatening and there's nothing to fear, and it's in fact an...

So this is just fear, basically. It's not helping others and not being selfish that hurts, it's an underlying fear if conflict and anxiety. If this is correct, then good news are, you dont have to sacrifice your relationships in order to heal.

I think I've told you everything I know at this point. Anything else from me would be too much of just guessing, but its well established that: 1. the immune system is controlled by mood at some degree, probably at a very high one 2. herpes tends to flare up when the immune system is...

He has a point though, but that doesnt justify how he's ignored all the suggestions, including yours, and his overall behavior. We have private messages for conversations like that, in order to keep the atmosphere here positive. Maybe we should just leave all this for him to figure out on his...

A happy person is more likely to have less psychological issues. According to Dr. Sarno's TMS teachings, psychological problems are the driving force of a lot of chronic pains. So theres no direct correlation, but a huge link. Also, what Robodelfy was probably saying is "you seem to have a lot...

2. There are people with immense nerve damages and no pain. This suggests mind plays a huge role in regulation of pain. So yes, you can say nerve damage pain is TMS. That means it can be controlled by your mind. Its not to say you should stop your attempts at medically figuring this out, because...

Those are the rules of this forum. You are know judging a thing as complicated as human personality having a very limited amout of knowledge. We are all here to help. No one threatens you, bro. I know where you're coming from. A lot of us has been through this mumbo-jumbo stuff that only sells...

When discussing topics that are contentious or when there is a disagreement in the thread, make a special effort to be polite and state your opinion as your opinion rather than fact. If someone is saying something in a thread that you think they shouldn't say and you've already exhausted the...

Check out success stories. Those are real life practical examples and guidelines from experienced people. It is useful. And they dont sell anything. The quality of knowledge isn't defined by how hard it was to find it. Its right here before your eyes.

I think I wanted to not let people get discouraged from "his pain was not TMS, he had a real physical trauma". It sends a message that pain can be purely structural and there may be no point in adressing ones emotions. Someone here could've taken it personally and just give up. Because again...

I'd like to add that: 1. There are people with terrible disc injuries yet they experience no pain whatsoever. They just live with huge buldges in their spine and they have no idea, because it doesnt cause them any symptoms. 2. There are people who couldn't recover from actual biological...