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Overall, and even more so if they are more science and medically minded, Dr. Schubiner's "Unlearn Your Pain" is in my opinion the best book. It describes anatomy and physiology and is more than just generalized concepts. It also has a step by step workbook to follow. As much as I respect...

Narcissism is really my primary root cause. It's what caused my miserable childhood, the unneeded surgeries, the denials after. Not gonna change that since so many people live in it. When I had agency I avoided those sorts of people when I could, and minimized contact when I had to be around...

Sorry about your child...that adds a level of complexity I couldn't imagine. I've met plenty of people who had kids and lost the fight and ended their lives. It takes a lot of pain to even push people past that strong anchor to life. It's bad enough as is...I cannot imagine having a dependent...

Thank you. The sad thing I have learned is those who care and would help are not able to...and those who could refuse to. Makes me think its all some game, joke, twisted Truman show. I am going to die because of America's incompetent healthcare and it's selfish culture. I live every day in rage...

I don't blame myself for the root causes. I AM a victim...and this was done TO me...I do guess I blame myself for not learning lessons about people, narcissism, egos etc even after repeated examples in my life. I remained idealistic and childlike with my desire for "right" and "fair" so long it...

Honestly as much as I appreciate the intent behind every response. I just feel worse when I reach out. Nothing that people say ever fully applies to me or has worked. I am not someone who can "find happiness" disabled and suffering. Frankl's book frustrated me and I later found many others who...

I found TMS too late. I had already had lots of surgery that I didn't need and it left me with severe physical issues. I did the best I could with TMS work to reduce pain and eliminate/stop new TMS based stuff. But...not everything is TMS and not everything that is life ruining is about health...

I've got symptoms too. I had family that would not stop traveling around and said things like "I am not sitting in the house" as if this was all some personal attack on their freedoms. The symptoms are conveniently the same symptoms I have had from various things like cold/flu/allergies/pureTMS...

Personally I don't understand how someone comes up with something like the elbow bump or foot bump. Just say "hello", nod your head, smile or whatever...why all this need to force some weird touch or gesture? Many Asian countries have used slight bows forever. Not long ago...a few days before...

I've actually been trying to nurture my creative side for a while now, before this pandemic. I am not innately talented and am terribly disappointed with everything I make. Photography was the thing last year but its just too costly both film and digital and my stuff is so old and not working...

I'd laugh at that video if it wasn't so real and causing so much misery here even before the virus. It's another sign of the individualistic narcissism that infects this culture so no wonder a prime example is now the head of state. Somehow millions have been convinced being the opposite of...

Hi and thanks for the suggestion. I don't really need more books as I have the staple ones. But more importantly I DO understand your point and as Mr Rogers said "Look for the helpers", I do that along with smelling the flowers etc (hope they aren't a viral vector :p) but this doesn't...

And what about the book itself? What is different, new and would encourage someone to have a read?

Can you tell us what makes your book different from all the others out there from TMS physicians? Forgive the cynicism...its conditioned due to how my life has been and I know I am not always on the mark...maybe you are the most altruistic person there is and I am just too jaded...but marketing...