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Cactusflower's Recent Activity

  1. Cactusflower replied to the thread Requesting Guidance.

    “ I try my best at working the emotional angle, spending a significant amount of my day on trying to feel unconscious emotions and...

    Dec 24, 2025 at 1:01 PM

  2. Cactusflower replied to the thread Cutting ties (TW).

    I cut ties with someone last year. My advice is to feel the feelings and look at the layers of emotions as you do the work. In my...

    Dec 24, 2025 at 12:11 AM

  3. Cactusflower replied to the thread Duality of emotions.

    You feel the sadness and then engage in an interest that is not TMS related. The recurrent feelings surrounding “failure” may be deeper...

    Dec 23, 2025 at 8:35 PM

  4. Cactusflower replied to the thread New here and looking for help with CRPS.

    @Lhotse 100% it can help with autonomic responses. Those are simply your body responding to a ramped up nervous system and anxiety. Mine...

    Dec 23, 2025 at 8:18 PM

  5. Cactusflower replied to the thread I miss my life.

    I find especially now, in the current day social context climate we are in that folks may wish us well, but can't actually be walking...

    Dec 22, 2025 at 9:06 PM

  6. Cactusflower replied to the thread Relapse Recovery.

    What wonderful news Ellen. Please let us remind you again and again that you are so valued and loved here. Hope you have a wonderful...

    Dec 22, 2025 at 8:58 PM

  7. Cactusflower replied to the thread Day 8 Why would it be different?.

    Excellent and insightful post!

    Dec 21, 2025 at 10:39 AM

  8. Cactusflower replied to the thread Chronic pain.

    spot on Ellen! Ruminating and then trying to dig into emotions of rumination is just getting on the TMS hamster wheel. Explore the...

    Dec 20, 2025 at 10:07 PM

  9. Cactusflower liked Ellen's post in the thread Chronic pain.

    We TMSers are over thinkers. We can engage in a debate about whether or not our assessment of the state of our lives is objectively...

    Dec 20, 2025 at 10:04 PM

  10. Cactusflower replied to the thread I miss my life.

    This is what you are learning to do as you work through the SEP. The SEP isn't the end of your journey, it teaches you the skills to...

    Dec 19, 2025
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