What a funny page! Don't even know how I landed here. For me, the first step was awareness. Then ACTION and it's still ACTION and ACCEPTANCE every single doggone day. Meditate every morning and bring the body to the yoga mat and meditation cushion.
There's goodness in there, not just neurotic defenses!
Hope you found what you were looking for. Did the whole thing. Worth it to always come back to Beginner's Mind and learn it again only more deeply.