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I guess this is not so much about me but more about TMS as a whole. I have this with the Bible too. How did this happen? With religion there is also the fact that it is either real or not, theres not really an inbetween. People will tell you to just 'have faith' 'be more faithful'. I have always felt like this is too easy of a cop out.@Mani
Tinnitus is pretty much very well documented as TMS.
Doubt and focus on the physical is also part of TMS (and part of OCD thoughts).
People with "hearing loss" are not particularly documented over other kinds of TMS. "So Many" is kind of relative. When Dr. Sarno was working, back pain was the most common symptom he saw - but it was also something common to his particular medical specialty. As time went on, his protogees and colleagues often found that there were many other common forms of TMS that were always given "medical" diagnoses and medically treated eg. digestive disorders, tinnitus, fibromyalgia, and other things...but through their work with their clients it was pretty clear that most of the patients were folks with TMS.
You asked about the physical trigger: an incident that you attribute to "causing" the hearing issue - the trigger is usually just a convenient method of grasping your attention. You've documented many other physical manifestations of TMS in your life...so the question is why would it not be your hearing after a loud trigger? The trigger does not mean it caused any "damage" - which you've said your doctors have all ruled out. You have no hearing damage, you have no hearing loss correct? It just FEELS like this is the case because your brain as latched on to this sensation.
Your hearing issues are 100% equal to my symptoms. I've over come many of them because they didn't frighten me nor really get my attention. Once I learned about TMS it was easy for me to just say "oh, TMS" when I would sense them - and they go away. Because I'm not focus or fixated on "fixing" them - I don't believe they are any big deal nor a health concern or anything scary. However my back pain - triggered several times in a row to begin with - got my attention and frightened me. Add to that the associations I've made over the years that build up into some kind of a story line in the head. You've got one: you make certain associations that have you hiding in attics and cellars.
If you had simply heard a noise and felt a sensation and did not have other TMS associations with it - it wouldn't be your main symptom at all...but I believe you'd still have some sort of symptom because TMS is not about the symptom at all. It's about the anxiety, fear etc. That is why we work on those areas and stop focusing on cause and effect. Completing the SEP is a great way to work on the psychological aspects of TMS - the true cause of the mechanism.
This is great, thanks@Mani
Military tinnitus can begin with genuine noise exposure, but plenty of vets pass hearing tests while dealing with persistent ringing due to nervous system dysregulation—compounded by their heavy load of stress, anger, trauma, and a fearful brain that sees danger everywhere and feels chronically unsafe. You don't need to be in the military to experience this—our primitive brains haven't evolved much, treating everyday modern day stressors like traffic or deadlines as life-threatening dangers (as if we are being attacked by lions).
Consider blindness: someone might have flawless eyes and optic nerves yet see nothing because of Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) where stress or trauma glitches the brain's signal interpretation, leaving hardware intact. Think of it as a software glitch in brain processing, not hardware failure in eyes (or ears).
TMS works the same way for tinnitus/hyperacusis: Your ears check out fine, but a primitive fearful brain—stuck seeing danger and feeling unsafe, plus bottled-up stress or anger—cranks up tension to distract from real emotions that the brain feels if expressed could threaten survival (expressing anger may risk losing care from loved ones or getting fired). This uses neuroplasticity, the brain's rewiring power. It's no dodge; FND therapy retrains the brain like TMS does with journaling and other mind/body techniques that cause mindset shifts.