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Discussion in 'Structured Educational Program' started by OneBanana, Mar 27, 2026 at 2:35 PM.

  1. OneBanana

    OneBanana New Member

    "Ask a TMSer: To what extent is it necessary for a person to change who they are in order to overcome TMS? If you have an answer to this question feel free to post it in a thread."

    I think the answer is obvious.

    It doesn't matter.

    Work on fixing yourself and if you personality changes, it changes. You're not going to turn into a raging a*****e. It will be for the better.
     
    OneBanana, Mar 27, 2026 at 2:35 PM
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  2. Adam Coloretti (coach)

    Adam Coloretti (coach) Well known member

    It's not really changing your personality to me as it is becoming who you always have been/are - you are who you are behind all the fear, insecurity, people pleasing, perfectionism etc. You are who you are for that 5 mins in your room dancing around when no one is watching (as an example - people describe themselves as being able to be their true selves in their safe place). So technically you are changing but it's from your mask self to your true self :)
     
    Adam Coloretti (coach), Mar 28, 2026 at 12:28 AM
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