Day 8 how my wife behavior resulted in regressed anger and agony

I’m a type a personality who is clean always believe in putting stuff where it belongs
My wife is 180 of what I’m
1. She would use the rest room and leave her hair and never bother to clean
2. She will use the sink and never bother to clean
3. when she cooks she leaves a mess behind her
4. The kitchen floor is crawling with bugs never cares to clean
5. in the name of cleaning she would dump the important and unimportant thing under the stairs

every day I go with this helplessly, in anger, Agony , pain and Hatred
At times i tried confronting her but to not use. It has resulted in unnecessary quarrel.

I got through this every this this resentment has led to the regressed anger that is debitating my back and now i realize this
I’m trying to learn to let go of things and get to a understanding that its not worth going through this anger

 

Wow! You sound exactly like how I was with my husband. I was the control freak and it really riled me up when things weren’t done the way “I thought” they should be….