I just wanted to add - saw in The Tapping Solution. A gentleman who came to terms with bladder urgency - and this was due to literally being trained as children to hold out bladder. Not being able to control our own bodies when we need to because a teacher in school thinks it is right to not...
On here for the same thing for reassurance. Ordered a book on Amazon by a dentist who is tms aware called Why Does My Face Still Hurt. Hopefully I'll remember to review (probs on a separate thread).