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Recent content by LAguy

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    No Wonder I'm in Pain

    I want to share the most helpful journal exercise I've done, because it wasn't exactly a prompt from this program (although the structured program does attempt to get you to go here gradually), but this happened to me, a bit more spontaneously. I began to think back of when this pain started...
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    Day 16 Sharing Success

    Besides one bad setback, I've been feeling amazing lately. I'm on Day 16 of the program, but I've been doing this for 25 days or so. I began to share my story with some friends and colleagues and the responses have been interesting. I get a lot of encouragement, and at the same time a lot of...
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    Day 9 Self Critical

    Thanks for the book recommendation. Its been ordered : )
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    Day 9 Self Critical

    Thank you. I will explore "man of the house" a bit more in my journaling. I heard of something that Peter Attia was prescribed to help with the inner critic and I'm going to try to start to do this. His therapist said that whenever that inner critic starts berating himself to stop, literally...
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    Day 9 Self Critical

    My gosh, Andy, thank you so much! I'm going to grab that book straight away, thanks for the recommendation as well as the feedback. "your lack of "real gratitude" is judged by this voice." I love this so much. You've given me much to contemplate and I appreciate it so much.
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    Day 8 Doubt Creeping in...

    I love that, thank you so much! "screw that, I'm not going to live in fear anymore." - This is the treatment for me right now. The pain is there, but I'm done worrying about it and exacerbating the problems. Thanks again for sharing and for your kind words. I'm launching the business next week...
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    Day 8 Doubt Creeping in...

    Thank you. This is very helpful. I am trying hard to tell the pain to F off, but to be aware of the thoughts that are associated with the pain. It's hard, but I'm trying to acknowledge that this is a process built from many years of habitual mechanisms and self talk, fear, frustration, and...
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    Day 9 Self Critical

    I'm incredibly self critical. I have attributed this to my financial success, as I'm sure many here might resonate with, but the pressure I put on myself is certainly at unhealthy levels. I treat myself worse than I would an enemy. If I make a mistake, I'm unrelenting. Even in an activity that I...
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    Day 8 Doubt Creeping in...

    Thank you. In so much pain today, it's hard not to be down, or have that doubt creep in, but I'm here to do the work.
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    Day 8 Doubt Creeping in...

    The first week has been mostly magical. Every day, my pain has gotten less severe, I have begun to work out regularly and with more intention that I've had in years, and absolutely no fear. I took a few days off of the program (had some all day engagements and the TMS program gave permission...
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    Day 4 Epidurals, Core Strength, or Surgery

    I have suffered from back pain on and off for about 7 years. It used to come on after strenuous activity, like throwing one of my kids up in the air, or adding more weights to a workout routine, or having to move a heavy piece of furniture. I would in intense pain for a couple of weeks, unable...
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