Through these last few weeks I have discovered I have some real deep issues due to my childhood. During my journaling I had an epiphany that even though my mom had the best of intentions she really screwed my up. I’m having a very hard time not blaming my mom for my perfectionism and goodism. At first I was very rational and still nice to her but as time goes on and she continues to try to control me and my brother I’m getting more and more angry. I feel like I need to tell her but is that fair? I want to do it in a way that helps rather than hurts our relationship. Anyone go through anything similar? I can even now feel an inkling of a headache because she hasn’t respected a boundary yesterday. I know this is my journey but I need to protect myself from future pain.