So, I had a questionnaire at work about my personality and here are a few highlights: She may find it difficult to express her deep held views and refer to them indirectly. She may find it hard to push herself forward, and to say "no" when necessary. Her constant drive to help others may stop her from chilling out. She may have a tendency for holding her anger inwardly. Although expressing external agreement, inwardly she may disagree and use passive strategies to control her stress. So, there we have it, TMS in a nutshell!