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Day 10-now understand Not Good Enough

Discussion in 'Structured Educational Program' started by Stella, Nov 11, 2012.

  1. Stella

    Stella Well known member

    Pieces of the puzzle are starting to come together. I got paddled with 6 other kids in class when I was 11 years old. The punishment was over the top compared to the deed done. All the parents met and complained to the principle. All except mine.

    This is a similar example of other experiences in my life. My interpretation was I was not "good enough" for them to raise a stink about. They didn't love me enough to take up for me. I got married at 17, no I was not pregnant. My parents never said a word. They didn't love me enough to stop me.

    Now I know that it is not true... they do love me very much. But confrontation is very difficult for them. Anger is not within their acceptable range of emotions. Mine too.
     

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